That sums up this blog well.
Last night I received an email from my dad that said “CALL ME NOW”. It’s never a good thing to get an email from your dad late at night with such an ominous message.
Once I called him back I got word that my uncle was in hospice and would not make it home. Then this morning the point was driven home by my nieces Facebook Status which read: Going to see my grandpa tonight. My mom said its time to say goodbye and that Im ok with him letting go. Ill see him again soon in heaven. I love you.
Originally man position was that I would prefer remember my Uncle as he was in life, not as he is in his last days, but I wonder if that’s not selfish of me. I’m really not sure what to do.. and my dad was no help on that front.. saying “you make that decision”.
What are your thoughts?